wonder how this life is when you make small girls locked up with uniform, and doing all that is a must for them, but the situation is far from what you can imagine now, she was my very good friend and brilliant was she , she will easily confide i you and as well bring forth what ever troubled her, yes she was a hostelite and that made me fre with her cause i stayed in the school. the unfortunate thing is ever since she passed out we have lost contact and we have not talked since then and till now

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Igbonla Kidnap: Lagos Deputy Gov, Adebule

Igbonla Kidnap: Lagos Deputy Gov, Adebule
visits school, says Govt on top of situation
Lagos State Deputy Governor, Dr Idiat Oluranti
Adebule on Thursday visited Igbonla Senior
and Junior Model College in the suburb of Epe
where four students and two teachers were
kidnapped by a gang of suspected Ijaw
militants, just as she assured that government
would work assiduously to ensure prompt
rescue of the victims.
The kidnappers, numbering about seven, had
invaded the school premises at about 8am
when students were having a special session
at the hall and shut sporadically into the air
before kidnapping the victims, which included
a vice principal and head teacher.
Adebule, who was accompanied by top
government functionaries and head of security
agencies to the school, condemned the act,
but pleaded with parents and families of the
victims to cooperate with government and
security agencies in ensuring prompt rescue of
the victims.
While addressing hundreds of parents who had
come to the school to remove their children,
the Deputy Governor said such would not help
the situation as panicking would further
compound the situation.
She said: “It is true that in the last 29 years
that this school was established, we have
never experienced such a thing like this, but
now that it has happened and it is confronting
us, we must come together to find a lasting
solution to it. We, as government, parents, the
school and security agencies, must remain
united to solve this problem.
“I know you are angry, I know you are worried
and I know you are agitated, but we must look
for solution. But I plead for the understanding
of parents in this matter. I know how
traumatic it could be, I know how emotional
the issue we are discussing could be, but the
best we can do is to handle it with care and
with utmost wisdom that God can give us.
“It is God who secures, it is God who protect
and even in other climes where you have
everything, you still have this type of incursion
once in a while, but what we should be talking
about is how can we collectively solve this
problem,” the Deputy Governor said.
She assured that the State Government would
do everything humanly possible to ensure the
rescue of the victims, assuring that a team of
security operatives would stay behind in the
school to secure the students and teachers.
She also revealed that all security agencies
including the Police, Air Force, Navy, the Army
and others have been fully mobilized to
ensure rescue of the victims, just as she
expressed confidence in the success of the
ongoing rescue operation.
On his part, Lagos State Commissioner of
Police, Mr. Fatai Owoseni assured the parents
and families of the victims that the rescue
operation already launched would be the
shortest in the history of the Command.
While soliciting for the support of the parents,
Owoseni said security agencies were already
in custody of useful leads, adding that there
was a strong hope of rescuing the victims.
“All I just want to say for now is that you have
to work with us. What we also need from you
is your prayers. We will seek your
understanding and for now, I will not reveal
much because as we speak, there are agents
of the kidnappers here and they will reveal
whatever we say here to them.
“We have a government in Lagos State that is
ready to go all out and I can assure you that
this will be the shortest rescue operation that
we will carry out. We will do everything we
need to do to secure the release of the
victims,” the CP said.

Love in the air, wrong intention women possess in relationships

Wrong intentions of the women:.

When a guy approaches, it’s either for; 1. Love 2. Sex 3. Friendship But most times women fail to believe a man is either approaching for love, so in their heart they convince themselves that he's either approaching for sex without even placing the friendship as an option at all.
When this happens because women want LOVE they substitute the man's intention for theirs, failing to first establish what the man's intentionis. When they do this it gives them a sense of control, making them believe no matter what the man's intention is, they can overcome it with certain resistance, which may be not giving in to sex or not showing too much love or hiding how they truly feel thinking when they do this the man will finally change his intention to loving them even if what the man wants is sex.
The woman wants love;the man wants sex, so as the woman is putting all in place to change the man's intention to loving her so also the manis putting everything in place to make sure the woman gives in to sex.
The man begins to observe all protocol and in observing this protocol, the woman starts thinking the man is finally falling in line with her own intention which is love, making him love her.

When she's now convince that the man has finally giving in to her desire she then decides to give him sex,forgetting that she gave sex based on her own convictions and not base on the love the man is giving, her conviction in this case is what she now believes to be love.
So when she gives sex, the man is now getting what he wants and in turn since he has gotten what he wants he decides to move on with his life and the woman is left heart-broken, trying to blame the fault on the man, forgetting that they both have different intention.
She substituted the man’s own intention for the love she wants failing to first establish what the man's original intentions are, which has made her overlooked all the fact.
This is why when men dump women, women keep wondering why. Always see relationship beyond sex, don't ever think you can change a man's intention through manipulation, if your intentions are both different it’s safer and better to let go from the onset.

I always count this saying to be very invalid which "Saying if a man truly loves you he will wait till marriage before getting sex " It does not make sense at all. Thinking his waiting means love shows you need to re-evaluate yourself.

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